In her new memoir, Nice Girls Don’t Win, Shallow explains that she grew up in a "cult-like" commune in Florida led by a controlling guru who led extensive meditations, took members' money, arranged marriages between them, doled out punishments, and even tried to adopt their newborn children. It was an environment Shallow described as "pure chaos," but it's also taught her skills that made her a reality competition maverick.
"My early childhood set me up for success on Survivor," she told he told Us Weekly on June 20, 2025. Though Shallow was very young during her parents' involvement with the group, she interviewed them for her book and realized that it definitely left a lasting impact on her.
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"Fawning is one of the most widely used survival strategies, and it’s just this sort of overt people-pleasing, overly complimentary kind of love bombing," she said. "One of our basic needs is love and belonging, so if we experience a lack of that in childhood, we develop a hunger for it."
That said, it worked. And she doesn't feel bad about it. "One of the ways you get what you want is by being really warm and friendly. I wanted to articulate these survival strategies and share stories of me using them, to take away the judgment and destigmatize it," she said. "[But I’m also] a huge proponent of everyone going to therapy."
Shallow's book is set to be released on July 8, 2025.
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