Yes, every child is different. However, sometimes, the whole idea that "kids do XYZ when they are ready" can go too far. Dr. Carla C. Allan, Ph.D., a division chief of psychology at Phoenix Children's, stresses that caregivers know their child best and encourages them to bring up concerns about consistent developmental delays, stagnation or regression in skills or abilities with a pediatrician. She says the CDC and Healthychildren.org are excellent resources for noting developmental milestones. Related: A Child Psychologist Is Begging Parents and Grandparents To Adopt These 10 'House Rules' ASAP
2. Insisting on using the internet in private
Besides the internet, significant increases in screen time, more broadly, can also signal trouble. Dr. Allan shares it's linked to sleep problems, social-emotional issues and obesity."While screens are a part of modern life, a harm-reduction approach is important, especially for preschoolers," she says. "Limiting screen use during key times, such as meals, play and bedtime, is essential."Related:Child Psychologists Are Begging Parents and Grandparents to Never Turn a Blind Eye to These 12 Behaviors
4. Changes in eating
Dr. Muradian says hitting, biting, throwing objects and long tantrums in which a child struggles to soothe are all emotional red flags. "These negative behaviors, if not addressed, can bleed into their elementary and middle school years," she explains. "It's crucial to redirect and gain a better understanding of the aggression through seeking support and guidance for your child."
6. Lying or fibbing
Dr. Litvinov says that parents are often surprised to hear kids using inappropriate language or even cursing with their parents or their friends—and not just the spoken word."An issue that we have been seeing more recently has been when parents look at the texts sent among teens," she explains. "There is much more Inappropriate language, including more ableist, racially insensitive and sexually charged comments. Talking to your children openly and in a non-shaming way will be very important."Also? "Parents will also want to model respectful language," she stresses.
8. Sleep struggles
"Nail-biters" during close sports games are one thing. However, Dr. Biller says it's important to pay attention to kids who constantly bite their nails. "Children also lack the understanding of the physical harm that they can cause by biting their nails, even when doing so results in bleeding or pain," he explains. "As with many habits, nail biting typically has an emotional foundation. It is not uncommon that nail biting is a reflection of a behavioral response to anxiety."
10. Suicidal ideation
How to Help Kids if They Have Red-Flag Habits
Noticing habitual behavioral issues in kids is stressful. However, Dr. Muradian emphasizes it's important to stay calm and consistent."Kids learn from our behaviors," she says. "They look at us how we react to certain situations and will emulate it."Related: Parents and Grandparents Should Look Out for These 11 Signs of Loneliness in Loved Ones
2. Relate to kids through books
Hands are Not for Hitting by Martine AgassiTeeth are Not for Biting by Elizabeth VerdickThe Color Monster: A Pop-Up Book of Feelings by Ana Llenas
Noticing multiple problematic habits in kids is extra stressful. Dr. Vaughan emphasizes that you're not going to fix everything in one giant swing, though."Focus on one habit at a time to not overwhelm your child if there are multiple bad habits," she says. "Discuss clear expectations and consequences for continued unhealthy behaviors to help teach boundaries for acceptable behaviors. Also, motivate positive behaviors by utilizing positive reinforcements, such as praise/affirmations."
4. Get help
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Sources:
Dr. Regine Muradian, Psy.D., a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in work with children, teens and parentsDr. Carla C. Allan, Ph.D., a division chief of psychology at Phoenix Children'sDevelopmental milestones. CDC.Milestones matter. Healthychildren.org.Dr. Brett Biller, Ph.D., a psychologist and mental health director at Hackensack University Medical CenterMedia and young minds. AAP.Dr. Denitrea Vaughan, Psy.D., LPC-S, a psychologist with ThriveworksDr. Lara Litvinov, Ph.D., a senior psychologist with the ADHD & Behavior Disorders Center at the Child Mind Institute. Read More Details
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