DEAR ABBY: I have a strained relationship with my sister.
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Currently, my sister is in the middle of a contentious divorce. It has been going on for two years, and she’s taking her victimhood to the next level. She’s posting on social media about all kinds of things she alleges her estranged husband has done to her.
My wife and I have chosen to stay out of it. We have watched them treat each other badly over the years.
My daughter is now graduating. She’d like to invite her aunt and uncle to her graduation party.
What’s the right thing to do? I would prefer not to invite either of them. I do not want drama at that party.
— GRAD’S DAD IN INDIANA
DEAR DAD: Explain to your daughter that because her aunt and uncle are at each other’s throats as their divorce drags on, you are worried they will disrupt the happy occasion and ruin it for her, which is why you feel it would be a huge mistake for her to invite them. Then cross your fingers and hope she sees the wisdom.
DEAR ABBY: I have a roommate, “Don,” I have lived with for 11 years.
At first, we were dating, but we broke up, and Don moved out for a year. We remained friends, and he moved back in to help me with rent and because he missed the cat. Our relationship has been strictly platonic for the last seven years.
What drives me nuts is when we get in a fight, he never fails to bring up my son, call him filthy names and tell me he is worthless. This started a year ago. My son doesn’t know Don does this.
My son is 44. He sees me only every couple of months, and Don never sees him. My son borrowed money from me (once) after his dad died three years ago, but he has paid it all back. He had some trouble with his business recently that Don read about on some Yelp reviews.
Don knows how much I love my son and that I would do anything for him. His attacks on my son are cruel and have nothing to do with our arguments. I suspect he may be jealous, which is why he wants to hurt me.
Sometimes, Don apologizes and says he won’t do it again, but he always does. It tears my heart out. I can’t decide what to do.
— WOUNDED IN WASHINGTON
DEAR WOUNDED: So Don has a mean streak and doesn’t fight fair.
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If he is shocked, tell him that because the rent is more than you can swing alone, you have decided to downsize to something you can afford without him. If he promises not to do it again, remind him you have heard that before and you don’t plan on tolerating it again.
Is his rental assistance worth the verbal abuse? Not in my book.
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