A MUM has left people divided with some of the rules she has for her “feral” children.
Raising a child can be one of the most challenging things in life, and it can be hard to know which approach to take.
Kelly uses a gentle parenting styleTikTok/@deerkelly TikTok/@deerkellyShe sometimes lets her children eat crisps for breakfast[/caption]Kelly is one of the many mums who has opted to use gentle parenting, to raise her two youngsters.
Gentle parenting is a style of parenting that prioritises building a strong, positive relationship with children through empathy and respect.
It has gained popularity in recent years, but has also been heavily criticised, with some stating that it allows kids to walk all over their parents.
In a recent video, posted to TikTok, Kelly shared some of her gentle parenting methods.
One of her most controversial parenting methods is that she lets her kids eat “whatever they want.”
“They eat broccoli for dinner and sometimes crisps for breakfast,” she said.
Kelly revealed that she uses this method so that her children don’t develop eating disorders in the future.
However, many people in the video’s comments section pointed out that it is important for children to have a healthy, nutritious diet.
Another parenting method that raised eyebrows with some was the fact that Kelly never carries baby wipes around.
“That’s what my sleeves are for,” she said, implying that she wipes her children’s faces with her sleeve.
Some of her less controversial rules, which were praised by many, include shopping second-hand, allowing her kids to be bored and answering her children’s questions honestly.
Kelly’s (@deerkelly) video has likely struck a chord with many, as it has racked up over 2.6 million views.
TikTok users raced the comments section to share their thoughts, with some criticising her methods.
One person said: “The only thing I disagree with is the wipes.
Different parenting styles explained
There are four recognised styles of parenting explained below:
Authoritarian Parenting
What some might describe as “regimental” or “strict” parenting.
Parents with this style focus on strict rules, obedience, and discipline.
Authoritarian parents take over the decision-making power, rarely giving children any input in the matter.
When it comes to rules, you believe it’s “my way or the highway”.
Permissive Parenting
Often referred to as “soft parenting” or “yes mums/dads”.
Permissive parents are lenient, only stepping in when there’s a serious problem.
They’re quite forgiving and they adopt an attitude of “kids will be kids”.
Oftentimes they act more like friends than authoritative figures.
Authoritative Parenting
Authoritative parents provide their children with rules and boundaries, but they also give them the freedom to make decisions.
With an authoritative parenting style, parents validate their children’s feelings while also making it clear that the adults are ultimately in charge.
They use positive reinforcement techniques, like praise and reward systems, as opposed to harsh punishments.
Neglectful or Uninvolved Parenting
Essentially, neglectful parents ignore their children, who receive little guidance, nurturing, and parental attention.
They don’t set rules or expectations, and they tend to have minimal knowledge about what their children are doing.
Uninvolved parents expect children to raise themselves. They don’t devote much time or energy to meeting children’s basic needs.
Uninvolved parents may be neglectful but it’s not always intentional.
A parent with mental health issues or substance abuse problems, for example, may not be able to care for a child’s physical or emotional needs consistently.
“Being clean is generally a good thing.”
A second person said: “I feel like a nutritious diet at such a young age is kinda important.”
A third person said: “I’m not sure letting them eat whatever they want is a good idea.”
Others piled praise on the mum, such as one person who said: “This is exactly how I was raised.
“I grew up trusting my parents, and I spend time with them every week and talk to them every day.”
A second person said: “I agree with every single thing on this list.”
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